Following the recovery of writings that lost when I closed my blog, here's another I found out there.
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Some people point to the Training Courses for points, securing his place or find work. I, furthermore, take the opportunity to learn. The last thing I did I thought it was great, "Social Skills
The teacher, the first day, we talked about the importance of turning our negative statements into positive ones, when interacting with others. It is not the same as saying: "Do not be late" than "Be on time." And is not the same as in the first sentence crossed out to people informally. While in the second appeal to your good will. We put
task:
Some people point to the Training Courses for points, securing his place or find work. I, furthermore, take the opportunity to learn. The last thing I did I thought it was great, "Social Skills
The teacher, the first day, we talked about the importance of turning our negative statements into positive ones, when interacting with others. It is not the same as saying: "Do not be late" than "Be on time." And is not the same as in the first sentence crossed out to people informally. While in the second appeal to your good will. We put
task:
"Turn these sentences into positive"
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not yell at me / voice down.
not paint on the chair / is painted on paper.
not run / Go slow.
anyone not attending after nine / will be addressed throughout the world until nine.
not paint on the chair / is painted on paper.
not run / Go slow.
anyone not attending after nine / will be addressed throughout the world until nine.
usually negative statements tell us what is not done, but not yes tell us what we should do, and this is important with respect, for example, education of children.
... Jo, I like, I thought, and shifted in his chair to take the best position of attention.
The next day, the topic I was curious: "Put a mosquito in your life."
"Put quee ...?
"Suppose," said the teacher, you are at your job and you get a conflicting client (one of those people who do not listen to reason and that the only intention is to mount the cards). Try to talk, but nothing. You get the nerves and you're about to forget that this is a client (although take no reason). What to do ... Let's find a mosquito ... (And we got to watch the ceiling). There it is on our head and the customer. What do you think the mosquito is happening down here? What do you see? ...
"The mosquito is a disturbed person: the customer. Go to another out of control: you. And he thinks: Well, well ... go couple of fools ... "
" See, mosquito, and you do not know either, you resolve the situation.
The mosquito soon realizes that, by virtue of his client, type of gaps is implementing its approach for pants, and think: "In these cases, do not forget three key issues: peace, tranquility and quiet, "let us not drag the field from anyone. For such people, for the moment, you are given reason and point:" I understand ... "" Certainly ... "" So is ... "" Of course ... "" Oh yes, yes .... "When you see that we're not going to plant war, he alone will be diluted in the heavy monotony. The best attitude is listening to the arrogant stance Indian chief: arms crossed and legs spread (without challenge, but without specifying the way). I let it vent and remove all the crap that is inside, it is empty like a balloon. shall then when you are ready to move air, "Look, I do not doubt that they were right, I'll have in mind what you say and do everything in my power to help with that issue." Never mention the word "problem", adds a connotation that inflates the clouds.
Anyway, I liked the lecture of the mosquito. So much so I decided to look for a mosquito 'apañao' and place it on the roof of my life, to see if he can understand what happened between us.
Alfaya Mercedes Martín.
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