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Beginning Tuesday, February 8, then every first Tuesday of every month until June, we will enjoy the evening of a talk about happiness, self esteem, human values \u200b\u200band similar topics, Municipal Center for Lifelong Learning where I work. Admission is free and several speakers. Following this, the other day, a woman approached me with the information pamphlet, interest in the subject. As I explained, I discovered in his eyes a little bitterness that turned into tears. She told me her mother lived almost ninety years in a nursing home because she can not attend to - her husband is in a wheelchair and her caregiver. He said that each time you visit the elderly, it comes with a deep sense of guilt, because the mother was crushed by saying that no wants to be there, you want to go with it. I said (do not know if this is so) that residences appeared for this, to care for the elderly whose families could not take care of them. Sure there was better than his daughter, and do not feel bad about it. Some children do not want to go to school and cry because they want to be with their mothers, but that the doors close, they forget, because they feel well with children his age. Some elderly are selfish and know how to torture their children. They do not want to understand that they have completed their life and should let their children complete their own. I told him not to feel bad about not being able to meet his mother, because she has provided a good place to live, in the hands of professionals and which is operated by people their age. The "I love you", both children and elderly, should not corner us, because people are not machines, we can not break us so that others can get away with it. If you can, you can not, and elderly mother should understand that his daughter still has a life ahead of it belongs.
In many cultures, the elderly living apart, they were revered and cared for, but outside the family. I do not mean that if you have means, keep the elderly with us, but we can not is damaging to our entire family for an absurd unfounded guilt, because to them about, we would be depriving others of So we feel as guilty or more.
She gave me a hug and left. I do not know if what I said was correct or not, but what is clear is that I have to discard the feeling of guilt, because it binds and nullifies us as people. We need to approach things objectively to make good decisions.

Feelings are like candy: never at mealtime, or as many as for us indigestion.

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Alfaya Mercedes Martín.